How to Prepare for Engagement Photos

Your engagement session is a fun, relaxed celebration of your love story—and a great practice run for wedding day photos. It’s the perfect opportunity to get comfortable in front of the camera, create beautiful images for save-the-dates or your wedding website, and capture this exciting chapter. As a wedding photographer who loves these sessions, I’ve helped countless couples feel confident and natural. Here’s my step-by-step guide to preparing so you can relax, have fun, and end up with photos you’ll treasure forever.

1. Choose the Right Location

Pick a spot that feels meaningful to you—where you had your first date, a favorite park, or even your home for cozy vibes.

Outdoor locations shine during golden hour (1-2 hours before sunset) for soft, flattering light.
Consider variety: urban streets for edgy looks or nature for romantic feels.
Check for permits if needed (public parks often require them).

A personal location makes photos more authentic and helps you relax.

2. Plan Your Outfits Wisely

What you wear sets the tone and makes you feel confident.

Choose 2-3 outfits: one casual, one semi-formal, and maybe a dressy option.
Coordinate, don’t match exactly—complementary colors (neutrals, earth tones, or soft pastels) photograph beautifully.
Avoid busy patterns, logos, or neon—they distract from your faces.
For him: fitted shirts, chinos, blazers; for her: flowy dresses, skirts, or jeans with a nice top.
Bring comfortable shoes for walking, plus heels/flats to change into.
Accessorize simply: hats, scarves, or jewelry that reflects your style.

Lay outfits out ahead and send photos to your photographer for feedback.

3. Bring Props (Optional but Fun)

Props add personality without overcomplicating things.

Simple ideas: picnic blanket and champagne, “Mr & Mrs” signs, balloons, your pet, or something from your proposal (like the ring box).
Keep it minimal—1-2 props max—so focus stays on you two.

4. Get Pampered and Rested

Look and feel your best.

Schedule hair/makeup trials or touch-ups if desired (many photographers have recommendations).
Get plenty of sleep, hydrate, and eat lightly beforehand.
Fresh manicures (especially for ring shots) and groomed hair/beards make a difference.

5. Relax and Trust the Process

Nerves are normal—even if you’re camera-shy.

Practice a few poses at home, but don’t overthink—your photographer will guide you.
Bring a playlist of favorite songs to play during the session for instant mood boost.
Focus on each other: talk, laugh, touch—these interactions create the most genuine shots.
A glass of champagne can loosen things up (in moderation).

Most couples feel awkward at first but relaxed within 10-15 minutes.

6. Timing and Logistics

Schedule for golden hour whenever possible—magic light!
Plan for 1-2 hours (plenty for multiple looks and locations).
Check weather and have a backup plan (indoor spots or reschedule option).
Bring water, snacks, touch-up makeup, and bug spray if outdoors.

7. Communicate with Your Photographer

The key to amazing photos is collaboration.

Share inspiration (Pinterest board or examples) but stay open—your photographer knows what works.
Discuss any insecurities or must-have shots upfront.
Ask for posing tips or what to expect.

Engagement sessions are low-pressure and fun—think of it as a date with professional photos as a bonus.

By preparing thoughtfully, you’ll feel confident and enjoy the experience, resulting in natural, joyful images that capture your love perfectly.

Ready for your engagement session? I’d love to help make it relaxed and beautiful. Reach out—let’s plan something special.

How to Prepare for Engagement Photos